our first marriedversary

It starts with one

It’s true what they say “Time flies when you are enjoying life” especially with your best friend and lover.

It all started

10.3.2016 my world changed. Feels like yesterday when I got home from work, walked inside our condo to only be welcomed home by the question “Do you want to get married today?” Mikey asked. I was still on cloud nine from his proposal in New York. All my dreams were unfolding before my eyes. I thought he was joking but he was actually serious. “Let’s make it officially because I can’t wait to be your husband any longer” Mikey said. I was super excited but I knew one person I had to call to tell before we could get married. Judy “aka” my mom she had to know. Before I could called her and let her know what’s going on Mikey and I had to find a person to marry us. We called the courthouse up the street from our condo and they were booked. Luckily we ended up finding a judge who’s office was a only a few minutes from our condo and she was available 3:30pm. I called Judy and told her “girl Mikey and I are getting married today at 3:30pm here is the address to the office meet us there”. By the time I got off the phone with mom it was already 3:00 pm. Mikey and I rushed, put on some decent clothes, threw my foundation and lipstick in my bag and we were on the road. I did my makeup in the car, brushed my hair on the hair to make it look semi cute it was a HUGE epic fail. We got into the office, signed the papers and paid. It was time for us to get married and my mom was still a no show. It’s important to note that she suffers  from a disease called APT ( African People Time) which means she is 95% always late. We ended up getting married around 5:00pm. It was a beautiful moment that I will forever cherish. After our ceremony we told my mom and my sister who were there as our witnesses that Mikey and I decided to wait to tell people that we got married until our big wedding ceremony and reception. I guess my mom didn’t understand that part. Before Mikey and I even got home Judy already posted pictures of us on her Facebook captioning “best day ever.” We had no choice to tell everyone that we married via social media, since Judy couldn’t contain herself. She was just one excited and proud mama. Mikey and I are planning on having our big ceremony and reception for our family and friends September 2, 2018. We absolutely can’t to celebrate with our family and friends.

“From me to you:”

Michael Patrick Hoyle, my love, my honey, my sweetheart, my babe, my boo and most importantly my best friend. I don’t even know where to begin? You have surpassed all my expectations on what I thought a husband should be. You still feel like a dream. You are that amazing man in all the romantic movies that ladies dream of having or marrying one day. I am one of the few that got to marry that man. Thank you for showing me unconditional TRUE LOVE. I never knew what it was or meant until God sent you my way. People always tell me “you are one blessed woman” and Always respond to them yes I am and I deserve ALL OF IT. If they knew my story they would understand why. With you, I became a better person. God knew the perfect man to send my way. Thank you for not only loving me unconditionally but for also loving Judy, Rabbecca, Kay, Ray and my cousin Suleiman and most importantly being patient with us. You knew how important my family is to me and you have went above and beyond for them. You never cease to amaze me. I thank God everyday for blessing me with an amazing loving, kind, caring, supportive, respectful, protective and spiritual man like you. Patrick I could write a whole novel about you. Michael every single moment in the last 365 days have confirmed my belief that I am married not just to the right man, but to the perfect man. From the very first moment I laid my eyes on you, I knew our hearts were meant to be. You are my courage, my angel, my soldier. You saved me michael. Thank you for choosing me as your better half. Happy anniversary my love.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous. It does not brag, does not get puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. It bear all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

I cannot wait to spend forever by your side!

xoxo,Frilancy Hoyle
  1. Tracy

    Awww this just brought tears to my ears ,frilancy you are an amazing woman and God blessed you with an amazing man as a hubby my prayer for you is that the almighty keep blessing your marriage and your home ..
    There are many doors waiting to be opened for you sweetheart this is just the beginning ❤️🇿🇲You have an amazing heart and you so free spirited!!you are my everyday inspiration you inspire me a lot after all you’ve been through and being raised by a single mother you still kept your head up straight and always wore your crown 🤴 straight,I love you girl and just know that you inspire many of us …love you a thousand times

  2. Frayor Chabauni

    This is awesome my girl! Happy Anniversary to you Mr and Mrs Hoyle! May God bless your marriage more and more abundantly! May He grant the desires of your hearts.

  3. Patience kaoma

    Your love story has left me speechless. Am touched like seriously. Love is wonderful,its simply amazing.
    Gods blessings always for u and Micky.
    May God continue being with u guys….

  4. beverly Brown